Advice to My Fellows

I have very clear and concise advice to impart to guys, particularly the younger males of the world.
 My advice is: Get yourself together before you decide to hunt down yourself a mate.
 I'm familiar with several guys that have the process backwards. Their living from check-to-check or less, yet their main motivation appears to chase women. And the same things usually happen every time they find someone.
  The situation eventually sours after the issue of money arises. Fellows in today's society  love will only take you so far when it comes to how long a woman will stick around waiting for you to figure it all out. If you don't even have things stable for yourself while you're single, how could you possibly support yourself and someone else?
 The monthly burden of bill payments,insurance,food and necessities and etc..is always going to be a constant source of stress if you're not established, which will only work to strain the relationship. The both of you may feel "money isn't everything" but eventually the lack there of is going to sabotage the relationship.
 Get yourself together first. If you cannot pay for the movie date she so desperately wants to attend, it's going to register as a major strike against you in her mind. And you cannot afford very many major strikes with a woman. The woman you love will eventually leave you for the person that can afford to have a good time.
 So again, get your business and life together before you attempt to take on the responsibility of a relationship. Trust me, you can and will avoid a great deal of heart ache if you follow this advice.


                                                                                                                                     James Scott